Unholy Silence 6: The Jerk In Traffic (author unknown)

You know what "unholy silence" is? It's that silence between you and the person in front of you in traffic, or the grocery line, or check out counter (why is it always while standing in line?), when they are annoying you and yet no words are spoken between you. They've not actually done anything to you, yet you're still aggravated by them. It's silent, but only on the outside. It's not silent in your head. Indeed, it's very noisy with judgment, frustration and anger.

Read about the jerk in traffic. It will change the unholy silence into holy silence as well as change the way you look at people while standing in line.

Heavenly Father,

Help us remember that the jerk who cut us off in traffic last night is a single mother who worked nine hours that day and is rushing home to cook dinner, help with homework, do the laundry and spend a few precious moments with her children.

Help us to remember that the pierced, tattooed, disinterested young man who can't make change correctly is a worried 19-year-old college student, balancing his apprehension over final exams with his fear of not getting his student loans for next semester.

Remind us, Lord, that the scary looking bum, begging for money in the same spot every day (who really ought to get a job!) is a slave to addictions that we can only imagine in our worst nightmares.

Help us to remember that the old couple walking annoyingly slow through the store aisles and blocking our shopping progress are savoring this moment, knowing that, based on the biopsy report she got back last week, this will be the last year that they go shopping together.

Heavenly Father, remind us each day that, of all the gifts you give us, the greatest gift is love. It is not enough to share that love with those we hold dear. Open our hearts not to just those who are close to us, but to all humanity. Let us be slow to judge and quick to forgive, show patience, empathy and love.”

Baruch HaLeiv